"You should just tell him how you feel." she wrote to me as we chatted. "TELL-HIM-HOW-I-FEEL!?!?" I questioned weather or not my friend had gone mad. And she had. The thought of me, possibly putting myself up to complete vulnerability by confessing what I try so well to keep inside sounded like complete crazy talk. The last time I so boldly confessed my undeniable affection to a guy was in the fourth grade in Mrs.Sing's class. His name was Daniel and I thought I was going to marry him because he had cute dimples and shiny hair. I didn't tell him in person though, oh no, I did what every cool 9 year old would do in this situation. I wrote the kid a letter saying how I liked him. I wanted to ask what conditioner he used but thought it was too weird. And, it was in cursive, so he could know I was classy. Needless to say, my tactic didn't work. A week later he told me he had thrown the letter away and that he didn't like me. I wanted to tell on him.Anyways, I got over my 9 year old minor heartbreak, and now that I'm older I'm not that brave. Okay, I'm a total chicken. If you ask me, a girl telling a guy she likes him is like wearing a Chanel gown with combat boots. To a pool party. I personally don't get it.. I told one of my friends this the other day and she reminded me we're living in the 21st century and that its normal for girls to tell a guy she likes him. I died. Then I ranted on questions like "What if I faint when telling him I like him from hyperventilating?" and "What if he doesn't like me back? and What if when I tell him I like him he never wants to talk to me again because he hates me!!??" She said I was exaggerating. I think its being cautious. Whatever. I do my best not to even show a guy when I'm interested in him, that I'm interested in him because I'm honestly too afraid of rejection. And I've come to the conclusion that I'm allergic to it. I clearly remember breaking out in hives after Daniel told me he didn't like me back. I'm complicated I know. I'm working on all this I promise. Well Jesus is.
What do you think? Is it okay for a girl to make the first move? And ladies, if you have any funny stories like mine, by all means, sharing is caring! haha
Goodnight ya'll! :)
Yes.but if the guy dosen't like you expect the same reaction you girl give guys when you don't like them. And if the guy is not a beliver expect to possible get used cause we knows he could have you...So girls you have been warned.
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